Welcome to A Rainbow In My Heart Homeschool! We are happy to have you following our blog regarding our homeschooling experience and activities!
Time for introductions! I am Tara (31yrs) and will be homeschooling my daughter Emily (9yrs) and I also work with my son Elliot (2yrs) on some activities. Emily will also be working on her typing skills by contributing to this blog with Mommy's help!
Now for some background...
I started out homeschooling Emily for preschool and kindergarten. At that point I was planning on homeschooling her for years to come but I would reevaluate each year as to what was best for her. August of 2008, it was apparent that it was not going to be the best decision to continue to homeschool for a variety of reasons. I prayed on the decision for two weeks until I had the answer. One week before school was to start I enrolled her in a private Christian school. In my heart I had always know that Emily would attend that school at some point. We love the school! Emily attended the school for first, second, and third grade. She made wonderful friends and really enjoyed her experience.
During this time, we welcomed a new family member! Elliot was born in July of 2009 after a very complicated pregnancy and premature delivery. He is now 25 months and is doing so well after we worked the kinks out! This experience was difficult at best for Emily as I was often admitted to the hospital, we had to move as I couldn't work anymore and we had many hurdles to overcome. With God by our side and our wonderful friends that blessed us through this time, we made it through.
So, now here we are, the fall of 2011 and the start of a new school year! We are doing it on our terms this time though! For a few reasons, I decided to not reenroll Emily in the private school. At first it was the financial aspect that pulled me away, but as I prayed and thought about what was best for Emily and our family, the answer became apparent. We did have an extremely generous offer from some very special and humble relatives to cover her tuition all the way through 8th grade. I am extremely appreciative of the offer, but by that time I had been praying on what to do and replaying the different struggles we had during the school year. It really came down to how disconnected I felt from Emily as she was gone 7.5 hours a day and then we'd have a night of homework, dinner, bath and bed. That is not the type of mom I am. I do not look forward to sending her back to school in the fall, it just doesn't sit right with me. I like to be involved with my children and engaged in their activities. I was not able to keep up with what Emily was studying in school and her progress as well as I would like to. As I said before I felt very disconnected from her and our evenings were busy. We'd have Good News Club and dance on Monday nights, so she'd only have about 2 hours at home during which she'd need to complete her homework and have dinner. Wednesdays were church nights with Awana for her and bible study for me. It was just too chaotic for us. I felt short tempered at times with being stressed about getting everything accomplished. At this time I will mention that I also run a regulated home daycare. With having an infant that was struggling in various ways unknown at the time and wanting to do more for my daughter, it was too stressful. I won't ever forget the one night when she had a project due the next day that had been forgotten about and I 'helped' too much with it, just to get it done.
So, now we are just one day away from Emily's 4th grade school year! We are so excited to start too! Emily definitely had mixed feelings when we discussed this over the summer but readily accepted my decision, although she will continue to miss her school mates and teacher. At a later time I will post her reasons why she liked 'going' to school and her reasons why she would like homeschooling again. It is very cute.
We are fortunate to know several families that homeschool also and Emily will have more time to have piano lessons again and other activities that would be difficult to do is she were away for the better part of the day. As it is, some good friends of ours and us will meet weekly on Fridays to learn together. Their Mom and I will plan weekly learning activites for our group of three. Emily will enroll in piano or guitar lessons and will also be a part of the youth worship team that just started up at our church. She will continue to go to Good News Club on Mondays, it is an after school club organized by CEF and run by some very wonderful woman! They meet in the public school cafeteria on Mondays from 3-4:30 to learn about the glory of God. Emily used to have to run the 5 blocks after her school let out at 3:05 to get to GNC as quick as possible. Now she will be able to be on time and more focused and without a heavy backpack to lug! She is also enrolled in Book Bunch at at our library. It is a group of 4th-6th graders that meet once a month to have a book discussion on the book that was assigned for that month.
With homeschooling, since the class is a very small size, in our case just one student, the work can be completed in just a few hours leaving the rest of the day for other activities and interest. We will get the bookwork done in the morning and will have the rest of the day for cooking lessons (one of her new interests!), to take lessons, have free play, write to her penpal in Indiana, and go on field trips. Emily loves hands on learning so being homeschooled will allow her many more chances to do projects and work on experiments. Something we'd like to get going soon is an indoor herb garden as she had her interest piqued at the Farmer's Market this past week when we picked up fresh basil. She asked questions about it and I told her that we could make our own herb garden at home! This is a learning experience for the both of us! More importantly, we will be able to learn and grow together during these last years of childhood. Soon enough she will be driving and working! These years will be cherished and remembered by us but will still go too fast. Emily will have more freedom throughout the year to visit her Grandparents across the country which they will all enjoy! Homeschooling has so many benefits!
Thank you for taking the time to read up on us and expect some great posts in the future!
In God I trust,
Tara